As the song 对的人by 戴爱玲goes,


爱虽然很美妙
却不能为了寂寞
又陷了泥沼

爱要耐心等待
仔细寻找
感觉很重要
宁可空白了手
等候一次
真心的拥抱
我相信在这个世界上
一定会遇到
对的人出现
在眼角


so, I guess I'll move on.

Ha, to think that a song is more effective than counsellings to make me realise that.

But, I'll never forget him. Thank you for your teachings.